getting treated right

A lot of people take a lot of crap from others. Some do it because its their job and other do it because they love the other person. I think no one should take any crap from somebody else.Do not expect anyone to be responsible for your happiness. Ask yourself why you aren't happy. Relationships fail because someone is unhappy and blames the partner. Your life is completely under your control, with your relationship you have to take the good with the bad. You need to give as well as take. This is with the exception of domestic abuse.I think the main problem in a relationship is admitting your mistakes and say sorry. One possible way to do this is to talk after having a misunderstanding or argument. For example you can ask your bf/gf to give you some time to think of the wrong and right things that you and he/she did. Ask your bf\gf to do the same thing and talk to them when you are both ready.